Weekdays in Bangalore, Weekends in Mysore

Weekend Rush @ Bus Stand

The title of this post is very simple, “Weekdays in Bangalore, Weekends in Mysore.” But unfortunately, the lives of most of us aren’t. This post is for all those who are from Mysore, who are settled down happily in Mysore, but are working in Bangalore. People like us constitute a healthy percentage of the working population in Mysore.

Some of us wanted to come work in Bangalore because of the lifestyle (come on, you know what I mean, don’t you?). Most of us came here because we din’t have any other option (Not that there aren’t any jobs in Mysore, but a little secret that Engineers alone know is that you can get a job in Bangalore no matter what you scored in your B.E.). And some of us have come here because the job that matches our profile, or likes, aren’t available in Mysore.

Whatever the reason maybe, the important thing to know here is that most of us have partially migrated to Bangalore. One thought always comes to my mind (please don’t laugh at it). I have moved to Bangalore for my job now. A few years down the lane, I may get married (not “may”, I “will”). And after that, you know, I’ll have kids and all. I’ll have to put them into a school over here in Bangalore. By the time I say goodbye to my professional life, my kids would have become men or women with their own jobs, may be in Bangalore or some other place.

Now, between all these nightmares happening in my life, I will be stuck in Bangalore as my job is here. I may not go back to Mysore, maybe sometimes visit the city. So, by the time I become a compete ripe fruit, I would have completely settled down in Bangalore, which I don’t want (no offense Bangalore-lovers).

This is just one of the random thoughts that fill my mind when I’m doing almost something (you can never be doing be “nothing”, if you think about it). So, like this, people from across the country come to Bangalore in search of a means for living and just make the city a not at all good place to settle down.

Coming back to the topic, people who are not in this situation (people still studying, or people who were lucky enough to get a job in Mysore, or people who are lucky enough that they don,t need a job, etc.), don’t really realize what kind of pain we deal with every week. I don’t know about others, but it sure is a pain to me. People outside this mess think that we are living our life to the fullest in Bangalore, a city with “different colors” (I don’t know who came up with that phrase, but I hear that a lot).

But trust me, we don’t live the life with “different colors”, over lives are black-and-white than you can imagine. We hardly get time to watch a movie, or read a novel. To be frank, I had to keep a track of my schedules and make myself free for a few minutes to write this very post.

Our routine is very simple here in Bangalore.

  • Get up early in the morning and get ready.
  • Rush to the restaurant near you to have your breakfast, there is a huge crowd for this, and you’ll have to wait for at least 10 mins to get your food.
  • Gobble as much as you can in the limited time you have.
  • Rush to the bus stop to try to get into that heavily crowded, about to turtle BMTC bus. For those of us who have our own vehicles here, we have to rush to get ourselves through the heavily loaded roads.
  • You are in office now, maybe a bit late, but you have work to do, a lot of work. So get to your cube right away (no, don’t think to saying Hi to that cute girl you always stare at, your team leader/manager is on you for being late).
  • Lunch break (it was such a fun time in schools, but not here). Go to the cafeteria, get your plate, stand in the queue. Have you see those Hollywood movies where the criminals, with their hands and legs tied to each other, stand in the line for their nasty foods? It will be really awesome if you can picture us in that situation. :)
  • Gobbled you food again, now back to work. Tea break, don’t think of it. Work, work, work….
  • Its 6 PM, time to go, but no, not for you (why do everybody else gets to leave early and not me? Oh, wait, you came late to the office today). So bit more time, alone with my computer, so romantic (tell me about it).
  • Anyway, you finish your work and while getting out of the office, you notice that the cute girl is already gone. :(
  • Go back home, its late, you are tired, eat food slowly, sob, sleep like a dead lizard.

This is just a brief, there are a lot of things happening between all these. So anyway, the first five days of every week go by like this, and you never know when its Friday (#TGIF). So, you finish you work on Friday eve, go to the bus stand, or railway station. You find that the respective modes of transport are already heavily crowded with people just like you, co-incident? You bet!!!

Again, you try to fit yourself in the crowd, reach Mysore, get to your home, see your family, and sleep (but like a not-so-dead lizard this time). You wake up in the morning, guess what? Its a weekend. Now it depends on every individual as to what you do on weekends. So no comments.

But anyway, this is our story, we, the people who live weekdays in Bangalore, and Weekends in Mysore. If you are an Engineer, you would probably have got an SMS like this before, but I would want to change it and write here again:

“Life in Bangalore is like a public toilet. People inside it want to get out as soon as possible, and people outside it want to get in as soon as possible.”

Taking leave. Bye. :)

PS, I’m already late for work, I’m screwed.

  • Brinda Athreya

    I feel the same, living in America!

  • Pavankunch

    This is simplawesome :) From all those souls of soulful Mysore who rush back on weekends and feel as though they just failed a VTU exam going back from Mysore on monday mornings,Sunny m/

    • http://www.facebook.com/contactsunny Sunny Srinidhi

      Thanks. :)

    • http://www.facebook.com/contactsunny Sunny Srinidhi

      Thanks. :)

  • Dilip Madiyana

    I miss Mysore! the ever best city across the globe!

  • Srikanth

    Bangalore for Money… Mysore for Honey! What say guys ?

  • Vikasmk

    loved the public toilet part ! :)

  • optiandro

    well written one.. but somewhere you are not embracing the change. Life is just like a river you flow with the current.. embrace the new appreciate the old.. life will be lot better. City of colors, of course it is, I used to work in Bangalore, and sometimes travel to mysore on weekends, but whatever hectic life i had i used to enjoy it.. even after work it used to be fun with friends in the weekdays( pubs, dinner, late night movies, chit chatting,)..anyways that’s my life though.. Mysore is an awesome place to live in, i grew up there, i miss it… feel happy that you can get to Mysore on your weekends (i can’t) but its ok i like the city i am living and also, i make sure i spend one month in a year in Mysore.. i still keep that city growing with me…

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Anil-Bhat/1394918522 Anil Bhat

    Awesomeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee…

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Anil-Bhat/1394918522 Anil Bhat

    Awesomeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeee…

  • Abhi Shock

    Mysore is Waste Dummy And use For Nothing!!It is still like village meant for only lazy and village people Here people are not forwarded It is Nice Sleepy City!! Lifestyle malls Job Education Is Zero When compared To Bang!!It is meant for only Tourist No airport s there It cannot have the potential to produce talents like Banglore!!It cant becom lik bang even if 20 years over also and cant compete with Bang speed!!Banglore is International awesome Most happening city tht can have the potential to produce many great talents and attract people from all over the world!!We have to appreciate the bangloreans to make their City NO.1 in Everything Dedication d way of working!! Banglore cannot sleeps even if Terrorist attack or something Happened also It is 24 hrs busy lik mumbai thts why it can be considered as Metro asias fastest growing IT hub and Engineers Mecca of india it is A1 city ths waste mys s still remain in B2 ranking especially Youths will prefer Bang as their No.1 choice Mys has to depend on bang for everything even if people who goes for abroad will prefer tht place For VISA ths Dummy mys s lot to learn frm biggies like Pune banglore Hyderabad Cochin ahemadabad Coimbatore chennai!!Banglore rocks Mysore Sucks in everything!!

  • Jackie Cxert

    No One is like To invest In ths waste place!!! Mys cant have Huge automobile Manufacturing IT BT industries lik Banglore!!!Most of the Karnataka people will prefer Bang as their Best choice!!mysoreans are slow d waste thts why this place s remain same from the past bangloreans are No.1

  • Jothindra

    Well, that is how it was with so many of my friends in the initial days. They complained of the ‘traffic’, the ‘pollution’, the ‘mad rushing crowd’ etc etc. But gradually they stopped coming back to Mysore. And when asked, their usual comment is ‘no life’ in Mysore!

  • Hardyboy Hari

    Mysore is Waste Dummy D laziest place in india Jobs lifestyle Education d Malls r zero Here

  • Hardyboy Hari

    Mysore is waste Dummy idiots Laziest Place In India!!Lifestyle Malls Education Malls are zero here Ths place people Are Lazy slow waste fellows They dont have the Job to Do Its cant give competition to Bang in terms of IT BT industries Infrastructure resources This is Nice sleepy Town!! no airport s there D visa centres s there And cannot have the potential to Great talents like banglore!!It cant Becom bang even if 100 years are over Banglore s Such International awesome most happening city fastest growing city in asia d around the globe Bangloreans are determined hardworkers everyone appreciate Their efforts to stood the city NO.1 in everything and make their cities best bang s great city knwn for its talents no one can beat banglore. Banglore Rocks D Sleepy mys sucks in everything Youths frm All over the globe Prefer Bang as their Best choice and bang s known as Engineers Mecca if Terrorist r Anything happened also bang cant sleeps because its Busy 24 hours Mys has to depend on bang for everything Bang cant loose the charm Silicon valley Mys cant have Huge indus Like bang.This Dabba mys Needs to learns a lot of lessons frm Biggies like Hyd Pune Cochin Coimbatore surat chennai vizag!! It cant hav the quality to becom 2nd city after bang. Banglore only the leader for Whole Karnataka d for weekends bang s the fantablous place d known for commercial retail sectors also Mys cant have the strong matured Work Force Day by day Bang s growing lik Anything at present bang has 95 lakhs dabba mys has only 7 lakhs!!!

    • Sanjay Cars

      Yes What Hari told is Right Mysore is waste in everything d Bang is the leader!!!

    • http://www.facebook.com/contactsunny Sunny Srinidhi

      Dude, the last we want is mysore to become bangalore. we want peaceful lives, we dont want to be busy 24hrs, we want sleep. and if u take d count, most of d population is bangalore is migrated from other parts of the world.

      talking about tourism, i dont i have to talk about how wonderful mysore is. and if u go back to school to your history class, you’ll re-learn that karnataka was once known as mysore. look at the number plates of old vehicles in your bangalore, you’ll find mys written there, not “bang”.

      and what is the fun of having 95 lakh people in a city where there is no place to live? u call that a life?

      and FYI, there is a functioning air port in mysore, update your database on it. mysore doesn’t have to depend on bangalore as you say. we have premium retailers here for every major brand. and for weekends, you may be “happy” to know, many bangaloreans come to mysore to have a peaceful weekend and not get stuck in the traffic on their way to mg road or brigade.

      dude, seriously, the list just goes on. i agree that bangalore is good for a few stuffs, but it can in no way be as satisfying and as homely as mysore is.

      • Hardyboy Hari

        Dude But Huge Industries major IT giants are not there in Mys d no one can intrested to start r invest Huge money here like Banglore when it comes to Real estate apartments Bang s on the Top d in Research also Bang stood First d IIM s there in bang which s world class mys cant have The malls lik Matri garuda forum UB city royal meenakshi mall which s Banglores First international mall Cinepolis.Banglore is also good For super Hospatility!! mys cant have the major roads lik MG Brigade road in Banglore!!!people here are not give cooperation to everyone who comes forward to setup IT r some Industries!!!

        • mysorean

          r u a school kid or something hardyboy hari? so immature. :-)

        • http://www.facebook.com/contactsunny Sunny Srinidhi

          Again, update your database. Companies like Infosys, Wipro, L&T, and many others are already here. Infosys’s “WORLD LARGEST CAMPUS” is in Mysore.

          Real estate, come to invest here, you’ll get to know how the prices have gone up. Mysore University is one of the world-class universities ever. And coming to mall, there are many already, and many are being constructed.

          If you want to draw international attention by having malls, that is your way. We have a rich heritage and a very firm place in the history books to draw sufficient international attention. Match Dasara with any meaningful international event in Bangalore.

          MG Road and Brigade, that is just people’s choice to go and have “good time” stuck in traffic for a long time, without actually doing anything.

          And we never say we’ll not cooperate. Even if you come, we’ll let you in with a big smile on our faces. :)

          • Hardyboy Hari

            But in Banglore u will Find Abundant Jobs In banglore there are 2200 registered Companies under STPI software exports s to be around 85000 lakh crores many of the world Best companmies have their branch in bang like Benz Philips Volkswagen and Volvo Bus manufactruing unit!!But mys have only Infy L and T Wipro excel thts all but bang is a major IT giant where u will find best MNCs like RMZ infinity Oracle TCS Mahindra Target Cognizant Mind Tree Bosch and many more!! i have seen in mysore there is only more and Big bazzar s there. Pune university is regarded as best and No.2 in India not mys university Pune d bang r the best places for Education lik MBA engg not mys!!!

          • http://www.facebook.com/prateeknand88 Prateek Nand

            Are u working hari?? i guess not…if do start working in those companies ..u gradually find urself questioning…THATS ALL there is to do in LIFE? As song says…”life ishtena??”. u don’t get time to shit…u don’t get time to sleep,u ‘l be clueless on wat u r doing.. if u like to be bangalore…no one stopping you…goto bangalore ,grow old in bangalore traffic,strench…In this blog, there are true mysoreans who loves their city…if u dont like be one…then CAN IT…dont say a word against mysore.. u dont deserve to say so…

          • http://www.facebook.com/contactsunny Sunny Srinidhi

            If you dont like Mysore, y are you here? Y are you studying here? :)

          • Anonymous

            First Of all iam a Banglorean

          • Anonymous

            Hey srinidhi do u knw first of all banglore stood No.2 position in Office space after Shanghai.Waste Mysore is not stii urbanised properly People are not forwarded and it Doesnot have Enough resources u thought iam a mysorean no way im frm Banglore d stays there only!!

          • Crazy Forbes

            Mys s not Still Urbanised like Banglore D literacy level is High Bang and Our Banglore stood No.2 position in Office Supply Which is very close to Shanghai!!!last year in the Global investors meet 11 Huge companies are agreed To invest in your Mys but none of us are not come forward to invest here till now But in Bang Wipro is establishing Aerospace SEZ zone!! d many more Companies are invested thats the power and capability of Banglore!!!

        • http://www.facebook.com/contactsunny Sunny Srinidhi

          AS Hamsavardhan has said above, beat position No. 3 :)

    • Hamsavardhan

      Dear Hardyboy Hari, all of us mysoreans hope our mysore will never become like bangalore. On forbes list of best places to live, Mysore is the 3rd best in India and Bangalore is not to be seen in the top 20. Quality of life is very poor in bangalore and its an open secret. Am sure you will mature enough one to day and say material comforts are not the only things in life. You got to be born and brought up in Mysore to appreciate it. Grow up kid :-)

    • Jagga

      ha ha u like bangalore coz it has 95 lakhs? u got to be sad abt it. u said bangaloreans r hardworkers? anyway there is nothing called bangaloreans, its either migrants or refugees there. people dont have an identity there. guess ur too shallow. ur happy coz there r malls??!!! wat will happen to all the traditional shops and the workforce and the family they support if all go corporate. and how can u compare bangalore to mysore? hope ur IQ level is ok. its not coz of people liking bangalore that they stay there, its coz of no other option. hope u know wat the term bangaloored means in the world’s atlas dictonary. check it out.

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Lakshmi-Krishnan/556803114 Lakshmi Krishnan

      Mr.Hardyboy Hari. Thanku for all the statistics. U seem to have really spent too much tome n effort in collecting it. Tell u wat.. it just does not matter!! V r not impressed!! V r not that business minded n money minded. V earn money to live comfortably n easily. In mys v do just that – live life simple n v r content. V dint invite u to mys. U r happy in blr, so be it.. Pls dont tell us wat v need to do. Thanku so much!

      • http://www.facebook.com/people/Vignesh-Waran/100001089976682 Vignesh Waran

        well said!

    • http://www.facebook.com/people/Chaithra-Hs/100000262546247 Chaithra Hs

      U (Hardyboy Hari) r 1 BIG IDIOT, thats all i wanted to say

  • Sandybhar

    Banglore Has superb awesome weather conditions to work and its the best place to stay Mys is waste bugged up place!!!

  • Venky

    So very very true, very well written.

  • Hardyboy Hari

    Mys s learn frm other state 2 tier cities like Cochin Pune vizag Coimbatore!!!Mys software exports is just 1900 r 200 crores but bang it is 80000 lakh crores Where as punes share is 32000 lakh crores!!

    • hams

      so?

  • http://www.facebook.com/shivashankarks Shiva Shankar

    Ya sunny, I have experienced this. I came to Bangalore in 1994. and had vanavasa for exactly 14 years and now back to my sweet Mysore. Now I earn a little less money and a smaller post. But at home where it matters the most, I am a HERO.

  • Anonymous

    Good article, keep it up sunny. I certainly look forward to see more fact based articles like yours.

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Lakshmi-Krishnan/556803114 Lakshmi Krishnan

    good article!!! i face similar situations though am not an engineer
    n to Mr.Hardyboy Hari. Thanku for all the statistics. U seem to have really spent too much tome n effort in collecting it. Tell u wat.. it just does not matter!! V r not impressed!! V r not that business minded n money minded. V earn money to live comfortably n easily. In mys v do just that – live life simple n v r content. V dint invite u to mys. U r happy in blr, so be it.. Pls dont tell us wat v need to do. Thanku so much!

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=1673042804 Sandesh San

    gud one ,most of us have the same life :P

  • http://www.facebook.com/pramod.badri Pramod Badri

    Gives a complete picture about “weekday in bangalore, weekend in Mysore : pakka Mysorean ”
    Also i am happy that pic was chosen for this :D

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Nuthanprasad-Dasharatha/100000494019298 Nuthanprasad Dasharatha

    Nicely expressed each mysorean feeling who are leaving in banglore…We Miss u Mysore…

  • Anonymous

    This waste people of Mysore cannot hav the talents like our Bangloreans d bang IT companies will cannot give the job for ths waste place people!!!

  • Pingback: MasthMysore Blog » Nostalgia…

  • http://www.facebook.com/people/Pallavi-Chandrasekaran/518058754 Pallavi Chandrasekaran

    Feels its just a reflection of my life at present .Love Mysore and wonderfulblog :)

  • http://www.facebook.com/SIX0180893 Bhimaray Lagali

    Nicely written… Loved that last paragraph of public toilet…

  • http://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=556051448 Varsha Upadya

    my compliments on a well written blog. im sure every so-called ‘bangalorean’ knows from the bottom of his heart that wat the writer is saying is true. its jus that they don’t wanna admit it cos the truth is always bitter. ‘malls’, ‘clubs’, hi-fi restaurants r jus excuses to make bang sound like a good place to be in. spending half my life in a cab or crowded bus stranded in traffic amidst constant honking, road blocks n pollution is definitely not my idea of a ‘great life’ in a ‘great city’. ppl writing crap against mysore can go ahead, u’re not fooling anyone here except urself. so pls do us a favour n stop making urself a laughing stock!

  • Anonymous

    well writtern.. Can imagine the pain what u go through in Bangalore.
    We too feel the same being a Bangalorean. We live our Weekdays in the so called Bangalore(as you defined) and live our weekends in OUR Bangalore. Our Bangalore is not in Malls, Pubs, etc as u have thought. We to do not like it as much as u say. We too are peace lovers. But we localities too have our Adda’s where we find peace with our friends chatting or spend time with your family and relatives at homes. Malls and pubs are enjoyed by the people who came from other parts of Country to bangalore, It might have been 10 years or even less that Bangalore being established as IT city. Before that also we had Life and charm. We can imagine what pain a Bangalorean might have been see such a sudden transformation, cutting of trees, losing its garden, losing its city outskirts :(
    It is sad seeing the comments discussing on Which is great (Bangalore or Mysore), Guys grow up. We are one state people. We have to work hard to make our place more loving place to live in peace.
    Can’t say Chamundi betta na illa Nandi betta na, both are beautiful and different. The problem over here is of the IT life we live, no where the place comes into picture. It wound have been the same if Mysore was IT capital and Bangalore was bangalore. I am scared as companies are moving to mysore too, hope it wont lose it Identity as I realize form ur post also that Bangalore has already lost its Identity. :(
    I will admit here, on weekends we take our bikes/cars end up in Mysore at midnight at 12 or 1 to have a Ice Cream in the Hunsur road Petrol bunk and go to chamundi betta to see the city at night. ;)